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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Take time this week to listen to our podcast on the 1st Principle – LOVE. Then spend some time going over the following questions listed below, first by yourself, then be sure to spend time together sharing your answers and listening to your spouses answers! Resist the urge to get defensive, criticize, or “fix it”. This is crucial! Just listen and talk. Remember you can only change you. The goal is to grow in your relationship with each other but first and foremost with The Lord!

Lesson 1 – LOVE

“One of the best ways to improve your marriage is to draw a circle around yourself and work on changing everyone inside that circle!” -Mike & Laurie Sheffield (adapted from John McGee)

1. What has informed your view of love up to this point in your life (Your family, friends, Hollywood, the internet, etc)?

2. How would you describe your parents’ marriage? In what ways is yours similar? In what ways is your marriage different?

3. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Which of the qualities of love, from this passage, do you struggle with the most?

Which qualities, from this passage, would say say your spouse exemplifies best?

4. Why is it difficult for you to love your spouse the way Christ loves you?

5. Read 1 John 4:7-21

Write down any insights into God’s love and how YOU should love your spouse.

6. Write your spouse a note today, thanking them for their willingness to work together on your marriage.

Lesson 2 – Brokenness

“I am my biggest marital problems!” – Paul David Tripp

1st Aired on Thursday, October 8th, 2020

Read Psalm 139:23 & 24

1. Reflect on which ways you have been:

Angry,

selfish,

prideful,

lazy,

controlling,

critical

Until we each acknowledge the brokenness in our own hearts and turn to the One who is ready and willing to help you, your relationship will remain broken.

Read John 15:5

2. How do you think your sins have impacted your marriage? Be specific.

3. Share with your spouse your answers from questions 1 & 2 above. *NOTE: When listening to your spouse share their answers, please do not provide any feedback other than thanking them for sharing.

Read Psalm 51

4. Write down any personal observations from Psalm 51.

5. Action Item for this week: Write a note, email or verbally encourage your spouse with three characteristics that you appreciate about them.

Lesson 3 – GRACE

“But God, is so rich in mercy; he loved us so much that even though we were spiritually dead and doomed by our sins, he gave us back our lives again[a] when he raised Christ from the dead—only by his undeserved favor have we ever been saved—” Ephesians 2:4-5 TLB

Your relationship with God is grounded in grace, and so must your relationship with your spouse! It’s the foundational pillar to any healthy relationship. On today’s show we talked about: What grace is, what grace is not, when grace is offensive and why engage with God?

We asked you to consider: Do you have a “works-based” marriage or a “grace-based marriage”?

  1. Can you recall a time when your spouse has been gracious to you? How did this make you feel?
  2. Is it harder for you to receive grace or give grace? Why do you think it is this way?
  3. Many couples operate on a merit-based system and often keep score. Why do you believe this is ultimately destructive for any relationship?
  4. Have you responded to The Truth of The Gospel and received God’s gift of grace? Do you believe you need it?

READ: Colossians 4:6

5.  From your perspective, how gracious is your speech? How could you improve in this area?

Action Item:  Our spouses will frustrate, hurt or disappoint us. Look for an opportunity to extend grace to them this week.

Questions Available – October 22, 2020

Lesson 4- Humility

“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.”-C.S. Lewis

1.) Is it difficult to show humility to your spouse? Why or why not?

2.)Humility In Marriage Can Look Like: serving your spouse, not having to be right, asking for forgiveness, studying your spouse, celebrating your spouses success, communicating kindly, putting your spouses need 1st. From this list, which areas could you most improve? Write down HOW you could improve, be specific.

3.)Ask your spouse to share 3 ways you can show humility or serve them. List your spouses answers.

Read: Philippians 2:1-18 and write down any observations you make.

*ACTION ITEM: This week, do some of the things that your spouse shared with you from question #3.

Lesson available on line-October 29, 2020

Lesson 5 Forgiveness

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Lesson 6 Forgiveness In Action

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Main Idea: God calls you to live with your spouse in “an understanding way.”  This means you will need to become a student of your spouse so that you can best love and celebrate them. Your relationship with your spouse is also tied to your relationship with God.

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AGAPE Marriages produce stronger families. Children need examples of healthy, Christ centered marriages! When kids see their parents model this families are strengthened. It’s our hope that together we get to the heart of these families BEFORE the kids are in trouble!

(Proverbs 14:26)

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Looking to connect with other couples & families who desire to grow in their relationship with other couples and The Lord? This is just the place! This month we are discussing what does it mean to be “in community” with The Body?

ReEngage is postponed
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Re|engage is a marriage enrichment program. Marriages in any condition can benefit, whether you are stronger than ever as a couple and you simply want to grow even closer together or you’re struggling to get along, and your marriage is broken, there will be a place for you here! See ReEngage Registration Page…

Ephesians: Building a Community In Christ

Postponed due to mandated closures

We long to belong. We crave unity. We want to be loved and accepted by others. Paul’s letter to the Ephesians is about uniting all things in Christ. Here we learn how to break down what separates us from God, one ethnic group from another, husband from wife, parent from child, employer from employee. This John Stott study provides a vision of the new society God has planned in His church.

We’d love to see every couple that participates in any or all of these marriage events using it as just a piece of their walk with Christ. However, we welcome you if: Lake is your church home, you have a home church or you’re looking for one! If you desire to grow in your faith and your marriage with us…WELCOME!

Marriage Ministries through The Church, offer an incredible open door for inviting couples who do not already attend.

When couples look to improve their marriages, they should look to The Church – a church where God’s Word is taught.

It’s our desire to build thriving Marriages and to help you have a marriage that attracts new families to your church.

We’d love to invite you to our church home, Lake Bible Church in Lake Oswego, Oregon or help you find a body that’s just right for you!

“For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” Romans 12:4-5

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